Traveling often and far, feeling everything deeply, and writing almost all of it down.
Offputting FM
Welcome to Offputting FM!
Every day I do the public service of sharing a song I enjoy and maybe enlightening you with my thoughts and feelings, because what’s the point of having taste if I can’t force my friends and strangers on the internet to listen to the music I love?
Something Stupid - Frank and Nancy Sinatra
I recently heard this song again while watching the hit British sitcom peep show, and it reminded me how much I adore it. I love Frank and Nancy Sinatra both in their own right, but something about them coming together for this sweet little earworm just makes my whole day.
It makes me want to be in the kitchen, half a bottle of red wine deep, making spaghetti with someone I love and dancing to “Somethin’ Stupid.” It really pulls at the heartstrings. Here is an unrelated picture of me in the kitchen holding my birthday cake.
Song linked Below :) 12/2/25
grandfather please stand on the shoulders of my father while he's deep sea fishing - Lana Del Rey
If I am one thing on this earth, it’s a Lana Del Rey fan. Genuinely. I have a tattoo because of her, and her whole discography lives in my soul. This song in particular just feels… huge. Not “Summertime Sadness” radiohuge, but the kind of huge that feels like a love letter to herself and to her long time fans.
“I have good intentions even if I’m one of the last ones,” and “I know they think that it took somebody else to make me beautiful… but they’re wrong.”
Those lines feel like such an I did it moment. She’s spent years building this era defining world, aesthetic, and sound. pushing through every weird take, every criticism, every misunderstanding which are too many to list here.
Now she’s finally getting the credit she deserved the whole time.
I love this woman with my whole heart.
I have a lovely core memory tied to this song: driving down the Maine coast with my dad on the way to his home in New Hampshire, just looping it over and over. I literally couldn’t stop. Pictured me in Maine listening to this song 100000000 times.
Song linked below :) 12/1/25
iPod Touch - Ninajirachi
I was introduced to Ninas music last summer when I friend of mine booked her to preform in Austin, I fell in love with her album "I love my computer" immediately. She really is doing it like nobody else right now . writing, producing, and publishing some of the freshest music in the scene. Getting to see her live in Austin was such a treat and she deserves all the recognition she's receiving currently. Pictured me and bestie at her show :) The song iPod touch went triple platinum in my ears. Nothing gets me feeling hotter and cool to the max.
song linked below 11/30/25
